Dating Behaviors that Turn off the Girls

by Dr. Love on November 15, 2008

in Dating Tips,Love Tips,Relationship Tips

Here comes the moment you’ve waited for the whole life, the girl of your dreams has accepted your invitation. Now the main thing is not to screw up and not to make mistakes that commonly occurred on the first dates.


1. Don’t forgot to call

Your date begins even before you met. Be gentleman and make sure that the date still stands. If she thought you’ve forgotten, she could go somewhere with her friends. The best option is to call her early in the morning, so she has enough time to prepare for a date with you tonight.

2. Don’t even try to impress her with the money you got

If you’re trying to get her with your money, it won’t work. The feelings of closeness and love aren’t the feelings you can buy, so show your ability of dispense with girls, not the size of your wallet. In the first few dates be gentleman. About a third date, you will feel comfortable being together, so you can share all the expanses for two: you’ll pay for tickets for cinema, and she’ll pay for popcorn.

3. Don’t talk about their ex-
You shouldn’t talk about your previous ladies. A lot of guys love to talk and boast about their previous dating experience, but in fact, it’s boring to listen for all this for them. Avoid talking about your previous victories, if only she asked you about it. And even then the answer should be short.

4. Don’t make too many compliments
Of course, you love her for beauty and personal qualities, but don’t make a lot of compliments. Couple of complement would be enough. If there is too much praise, for her it will be a proof that you’re not the one she wants.

5. Open doors in front of her
If you have a car with automatic doors opening system, that’s cool, but show that chivalry isn’t dead yet. Escort her to the passenger’s side door and open it for her. That’s gone be the first door you open for here on this date.

6. Places for visit.
Dinner on your first date should not take place in the fast-food restaurant such as McDonalds. Find a good and cozy place, where you both would feel comfortable, but don’t show off, bringing her to an expansive restaurant. Do not waste much time on choosing dishes in the menu. You should think about everything before hand, so you could show her, you have everything under control. But if she wants to choose, let her make her choice.

7. Talking on the phone
Turn off the phone. Dates should not be interrupted by the phone calls or text messages. Show her, she is the only one, you’re interested in right now.

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